What you need to know about campus dating

 Before we get started let me share my experience with you, that was level 100 a classmate female friend started developing something for me, I cant tell as to whether it is genius but for me, I kept questioning my felling for her, can I love this girl? am I ready to be in a relationship with her? can I combine study with her troubles? well to cut long story short, I had to let her know that I don't like it though it was difficult because meet her always.

Dating on the campus is a mystery and everything can go wrong.

Just imagine you are sitting by your ex at lectures or in a group study after a bad breakup, how will you feel? can you take it? You may see them at lunch, they could be in the same hostel, so be emotionally mature before going in for one anud tread with caution. University is not like high school, you are not under the supervision of your parents, you are mature and responsible for your choice, if you have a girlfriend or boyfriend before coming to campus, it is possible you will forget about them because you are now going to experience the reality of life.

Don't rush into any relationship just for anything.

well, this can sound awkward but 90% of people who dated from level 100 didn't get married to the same person after the 4 corners of campus. Like people usually say some of them just want to help me complete my course. Some of them just want some hookups, helping them in terms of money or assignments that is all, nothing more.

Put yourself first.

Love yourself first, your mental and physical health. Take good care of yourself. Invest in yourself. Know who you are and what you want. Don't be carried away by what you see around you. like someone said not everything that glitters is Gold. They may be amazing people, but you deserve to put yourself first and not settle, university is full of beautiful and interesting people

Your education comes first.

If your partner wants you to skip class to hang out with them, they might not be a great partner. well, maybe you should go for someone who prioritizes your grade as you do, someone who can help you succeed, someone who fears God.

Don't compare yourself to others.

Well, all my friends have gotten their boyfriend or girlfriend on campus so let me look for some. Remember we all have different stories in life, what works for Kofi may not sincerely work for Kojo so stay positive, take your time to be you.

You don't have to find "the one" 

Don't think that university is the right place to find the person to spend your life with. If it happens, fine. If not, that is fine too! we move.